by Ottawa_Chap » Fri Apr 03, 2009 08:35:17 PM
First off, you did the right thing by requesting a copy of the Collector’s license, as well as the Agency’s. One recommendation I’d make before doing that would be to have the collector spell out his name for you ahead of time. This does two things, one gives you a slight upper hand, and two you’ll have documented who the person is who’s claiming to be collecting on behalf of the agency.
Now your reaction to these calls is similar to many on this forum. Recalling back to a couple of years ago when I ran into trouble, I was taking calls from collectors and actually allowing them to get me fairly worked up. ... That’s exactly what these Trashbag’s are trying to do – raise one’s emotions so that we cave and opt to suppress the calls using cash.
Based on what I’ve gone through, I’d say that it may very well be unlikely that these Arsehole’s will attempt to sue you. How can I say that with confidence? Well, for starters I’m carrying a heck of a lot more debt then you, and I’ve received stacks of letters from the Collection Agencies and their [supposed] legal departments threatening pending lawsuits; but not once did I receive a call from any Attorney. After the first 4 or 5 months of phone abuse, I opted to start ignoring the calls – and I will continue to do so until I am able to deal with the debts (which are now almost stats barred). Now from what I understand, if the Agency does opt to sue anyone who is in arrears, we’ll first be given an opportunity to state our position in a mediation session before going in front of a judge. If a person is suffering from a valid financial hardship, they’ll most likely receive pretty favorable re-payment terms from the judge.
With respect to you feeling that “you did more harm to myself than good even though I tried to be reasonable and fair with them”, well I say flush that thought right out of your head! You were smart enough to ask the collector to provide you with a copy of his license – that indicates that you are more knowledgeable on the subject then most people. So, you should be aware that there is no reasoning with theses creeps. You talk AT them, as they are pre-programmed to reject any and all non-scripted conversation. In fact, the more time you take on the phone with them, the more frustrated they’ll actually become because they work on commission – and need to collect a daily quota before receiving their cut of it.
Will leave it there for now.. Do the smart thing and refrain from acknowledging the debt in writing – even in the Cease and Desist letter you may choose to fax them. I won’t say that the calls will stop, heck I still get one or two a day, but they don’t carry that much weight - in fact, if you heard some of the VM's they've left, you'd get a good laugh out of hearing these Trashbag's scramble to come up with some threat to hit me with.
Good luck, and keep us abreast of your progress.
O.C.
Infuriating one C/A at a time..