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Pay attention to Raymond's comments; I've always enjoyed the views he's expressed.
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You've got to realize that deep down all collection agents are inept mental cases. Collections of any kind represents the bottom of the barrel in the world of finance and so it doesn't exactly attract the "sharpest tools in the shed."
I should qualify that statement by saying that because of the disappearing middle class and the polarization of incomes, as is painfully obvious, we are looming toward, if not already in, a personal debt crisis. Thus debt buying and the like has become big business. Big money is lined up to cash in. And that means that it has attracted some top talent to the upper rungs, like the ceo's at iQor, Inc formerly CBCL - Canadian Bonded Credit Limited - Now Iqor Collection Agency and ActiveKapital (formerly PMS). Such people may not have previously considered this field when they were doing their MBA's, but now, because of the money to be made, they seem to have recast their mammon goals.
Having said that, the average collection agent or lackey working for a collections lawyer is little more than an unstable, unprincipled pathological liar, many of who may end up in collections themselves. I was being neither vitriolic nor facetious when I told the collector, Milo Bloom, a previous blogger on the forum, even if he was scraping up dead animals off the highway, he'd be doing something more useful with his life.
(I used that example because collection agencies like knawing on dead carcasses.) I haven't heard from him since but I doubt he acted on my advice.
And so that call you got was typical "collector speak." They're like seagulls fighting over an apple core or banana peel in a fast food parking lot. You were right in hanging up. You never talk to a collection agent, only at them. Until people realize that, they only aggravating themselves unnecessarily.
I believe the acknowledgements the Act is mentioning in reviving a stats barred debt refers to things in writing like signed response letters refuting payment or financial questionaire forms collectors are always sending out. I'm not certain about letters requesting status information on your file. One thing is for sure; whoever you're dealing with at the other end of the line will try to trap you into sending something that will revive or renew it.
I'm not familiar with all the settlement minutiae, so I don't want to speak over my head, but Johnny, or his blogs should be able to help you.
With regard to them hounding your parents, I'm definitely not in over my head. That's an easy one. Get them to be proactive and apply the "optingout" script referred to many time previously.
Ray